Being an animal person, this is a topic that is very close to my heart. As I look around my home at the four dogs and three cats who allow me to live here, I find it hard to imagine a life without them.
Fortunately, in today’s senior living communities, most places will allow at least one animal, and sometimes two, to accompany the senior into their new living environment. Rules regarding pet care, associated costs, and the type or size of animals permitted will vary from community to community, but in general, these policies are fair and open to welcoming pets.
The love and bond that people share with their animals can be profound, which makes it difficult for seniors to consider giving them up. However, it’s important to remember that animals require care. Not just feeding, but cleaning up after, veterinary services and proper exercise. It is not uncommon for a senior to no longer be able to provide the required time and attention an animal needs for proper care. That is why most communities will require care to be properly given by the residents or to hire outside resources to provide the services.
The largest exception to these general policies is within secured memory care communities. It is rare they will allow animals to live in memory care. Because most residents in memory care have limitations in their ability to properly care for themselves, it goes without saying most can no longer manage the care of a pet. While exceptions do exist, this is generally the norm.
Balancing what is best for the senior, and their attachment and bond with their pet, with the need for the pet to receive consistent, appropriate care is essential. Both seniors and pets will adapt to change when necessary, so thoughtful planning and discussions as a family about the best options are important for the health and well-being of both.
